Us women

I have always been this rebellious, recalcitrant girl against the patriarchal society of our country. Always retaliated when I was asked to serve in the kitchen along with my grandmother, while my brothers were given an OK to play in the lawn. Always disapproved when I was told to become tough and hardy as my brother. And I still retaliate when my mother frowns at my choice of clothes. Why? Why does it have to be this way? Why are we women always treated as the weaker section of the society? Why is it always women who adjust according to the impositions of society? Why are we women always, and always devalued?

 

We, women, are the most substantial creatures on this earth. We are not just confined to the household chores but outstand men in the exterior arena as well. And when I talk about women, I am not just talking about those who come from the privileged sections of the society, there are women from the under-privileged and minority sections, who have fought against the odds, challenged themselves, and overcame uncountable adversities.

 

Today, our society, dominated by chauvinists has unremembered the worthiness of this exquisite species. They have neglected the verity that women are the ones who bring them to this world. Respecting a woman is not a choice to make, it is a part of one’s moral conduct.

So, to all the men, who satirize women or treat them as mere sex objects, you all are raised by a woman and are or will be married to one. Women are an indispensable part of your lives, so if this is your approach towards them, it won’t get you any far.”

 

-Rabia Thapa